REALITY CHECK on life

by Crystal Boyd/ 
Onl 22 Team 166 
Financial Intake Specialist
University of Phoenix Online

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get out of college, get a job, get married, or have a baby.  Then we're frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are.

After that, we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We'll certainly be happy when they're out of that stage.

We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when?...Your life will always be filled with challenges.

It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. A great quote comes from Alfred D. Souza, who said, "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin--real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way TO happiness. Happiness IS the way. 

So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with...and remember that time waits for no one. So, stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, summer, fall, or winter, until you're off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you die, until you're born again--to decide that there is no better time than right NOfW to be happy.

Happiness is a journey, not a destination. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift from God. That's why it's called the present!